For 2019 I'm running a year-long series on my blog in which I share my responses to the writing assignment prompts found in THE BUTTERLY HOURS by Patty Dann.
MOVING
Our
family moved A LOT. The year I turned 14 my father decided (or
someone decided for him) that it was time to change jobs – a
decision that would require my 9th
move. (My father worked in hospital administration, and due to
politics and personality conflicts and power grabs, those jobs are
notoriously short-lived.) It came down to two possibilities:
Birmingham, Alabama or Bangor, Maine. Although what I really wanted
was to stay in Folsom where I was (at-last!) secure (I even arranged
with a friend's family for me to live with them, but of course my
parents didn't go for that!), I was rooting for Maine. (Like my
father, I have an appreciation and fascination for extreme
locations.) But, for whatever reasons, the decision was made for
Birmingham. And so my life was made – or, so I made my life. I
don't have any regrets, of course. I love my life. But I do wonder:
who
might I have become if our family had moved instead to Maine?
I think I'll write a book about it. :)
Moving
Day
Mama
packs
us into the van
as
Papa's camera
clicks
one last picture
of
the house –
say
goodbye,
Mama
instructs.
But
how do you
say
goodbye
to
the sky?
-
Irene Latham
Great poem, Irene.
ReplyDeleteSo many moves! (It would be interesting to read about Maine-Irene!) xo
There was a time when my father was studying ultrasound that we talked about moving to Birmingham for his training. We visited and it was all so strange. But what if? Would we have met before? He ended up going to Philadelphia for a month and we got a 2 week vacation out of it. I hated Philadelphia, but I was 12 and hated most things.
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