Tuesday, January 17, 2012

TEACHING IS 90% ENCOURAGEMENT

...trying to remember this fact as I teach Middle Son to drive.

I'm not sure if it's the difference in his personality, our different way of interacting with one another, or the fact that I have a new van I really don't want to get messed up.... but this has been a whole lot more stressful than it was with Oldest Son!

He's doing great. And he's so cute the way he narrates what he's doing. And yes, some prickly "STOP" "OMG" "LOOK BEHIND YOU" moments too....
 
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15 comments:

  1. First of all, congrats on finishing your work on DON'T FEED THE BOY! What a great idea and fun cover too...so exciting! And hats of to you for being such a good mom. I remember learning to drive. I'm a bit, um, clumsy, so my parents were afraid to teach me. They sent me to a professional driving school, and when I passed my test...my mom sent the (male) teacher flowers!! Hang in there. He's lucky to have a mom who remembers the 90% number. a.

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    1. Thank you, Amy! Some days I am better at remembering the 90% than others. And yay for your parents realizing it was best for you to learn from someone else! (The thought has crossed my mind!)

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  2. Hi Irene!
    You are right about the newer vehicle making you more apprehensive. We don't like the kids to drive the new van, but don't have a problem with the old Jeep. And all of our kids drive differently. My oldest stepson never did get the hang of it. He gets distracted so easily. Still doesn't have his DL!

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    1. Oh thank you for telling me that about the old Jeep! Good to know I'm not the only one. :)

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  3. I am not looking forward to this experience with my daughter, but I can't hope to put it off much longer. I will try to keep your mantra in mind.

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    1. As stressful as it is, it's also something of a bonding experience... wishing you and your daughter the best as you tackle the highway!

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  4. you're a better woman than me... Ronnie taught the kids to drive... of course he said you can't teach something you don't know.. oh, snother tidbit... they were driving the truck around the pasture when they were ten... no four wheeler for them, just a farm truck. The difference is Daniel would laugh at your OMG and STOPS but Andrew gives you that look...

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  5. Too funny! (she says as her kids are well below driving age). Payback will come! :-)

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    1. Julie, they have the power to surprise us at any age. :) You have much to look forward to!

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  6. So true (and hilarious)! I need to remember this when I try to teach my mom to use her computer. Usually I just end up yelling "Hit the little circle. No, the circle. No, the circle!"

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  7. I taught both my boys to drive and it wasn't too frightening, so when my friend was afraid to take her daughter, I said I would. It was a decision I learned to regret. She had a lead foot and scared me to death!

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